December 26, 2010

A Different Christmas

Our Christmas traditions (like our Thanksgiving traditions) went through a bit of an overhaul this year. 


Normally, Dad's family gets together at my Aunt Sue's house for Christmas. This year was the first time we gathered on Christmas Eve or Christmas day in years. We normally gather before the holiday because my cousins have farther to travel during the holidays. 


Somehow we got to gather on Christmas Eve this year. However, there was a change in the gathering place. Instead of meeting at my Aunt Sue's house, I was told we were gathering at my cousin Kelli's apartment. When I inquired as to why we changed, I was told that it was easier for us all to gather there instead of having to transport so many kids. (Among my three cousins, there are T-E-N kids under the age of 10. That's right, uncle Joey has 10 nieces and nephews on this side of the family!) I drove the 2 1/2 hours to Kelli's apartment. My job upon arriving was to help keep the munchkins under control. I am instantly attacked by Dominic and Jacobi. 


All the gifts that were given that night were to the kids. All the adults have stopped buying for each other, and we all purchase gifts for the children. My cousins cannot afford to buy much for Christmas, so we all take care of it. The kids had a blast. There was a DVD player, a slew of DVDs, lots of clothes, Nerf guns, WWE action figures, and some jewelry sets for my nieces. 


I drove back to my house that night. The meteorologists had all predicted all kinds of snow on Christmas day, and I did not want to get stuck. This is the first year in my life that I have not been with my brother and father on Christmas morning. I would not get to partake in my dad making his traditional Christmas breakfast. It was a bit disheartening, but my dad called me early to wish me Merry Christmas and to check on the snowfall report. Oddly enough, we had NO SNOW on Christmas morning. The snow did not start falling until around 10 AM...go figure!


In the afternoon of Christmas day, my brother and I drove to my mother and step-father's house. They live exactly one hour from my brother and one hour from me. When we got to mom's, we all went downstairs to the media room. This is where mom keeps her Christmas tree. (It is also the largest room in the house which means more room for my two nephews, Will and Matthew, to roam. There are less breakables down there, too.) We all settled in for a few hours of conversation. My brother and mother only see each other at Christmas each year. So there is tons of catching up to do. As I sat there, I laughed at how much I am like my mother and how much my brother and step-father are alike. We exchanged gifts, then my mother took us upstairs to load us up with holiday food. My favorite Christmas food from mom...homemade sausage balls. There are none that compare. 


All-in-all, it was a nice Christmas. It was peaceful, and it turned out to be a white Christmas. We RARELY get a white Christmas around here. (Of course, we now have over 6 inches of snow since yesterday, and it is still snowing!) 


Below is a list of some of my Christmas gifts: 


Droid X - It arrives on Wednesday! 


Armani Code - My mother has impeccable taste! 


Superman Watch


Convection Oven - So I can keep on baking! 


Just Dance 2 - This boy's gotta dance! 


Twilight : Eclipse - Yes, I follow the movie and books! 
Zumba DVD set - Yes, I actually asked for this! 





I hope everyone else had a great Christmas holiday! Take care! 

December 20, 2010

A Huge THANK YOU!

I love selfless acts of kindness, generosity, thoughtfulness, etc.

Today I received a card in the mail. It was a card from St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Some very good friends of mine made a donation to the hospital in my honor. It is a gift that truly keeps on giving. Knowing that St. Jude Children's Research Hospital is a place close to my heart, I cannot say thank you enough for a gift such as this.

This is the type of gift that I have asked so many for this year. I don't need anything tangible for my gift. I am much more content and happy knowing that this, and other donations will be used to help find cures for childhood catastrophic illnesses.

So a HUGE THANK YOU to Mikeal and Mandi! Love you guys!

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Coincidentally, I ordered a Christmas gift for a fellow blogger today. The funny thing is that this blogger will have absolutely NO CLUE this is coming. It was a random, spur of the moment, happening. I couldn't help myself. It is supposed to arrive at said blogger's home on Thursday! I love sending the random gift from time to time. Hope it brighten's this blogger's day!

December 19, 2010

Pics That Make Me Smile

Tonight I have settled into my couch with an amazing cup of fresh hot chocolate. I decided to chop up Dove chocolate pieces, melt them slowly, and add them to steaming hot milk. It is probably one of the best cups of hot chocolate I have had in a pretty long time! 


As I sit here tonight, I have been laughing (something that I definitely needed) at pictures that I have caught on Facebook. Thought I would share a few.

First, meet Santa Claus...aka My Father! Yes, this is an actual picture of my dad. Every year he grows out his hair and beard starting in August and ending in December. I will admit that he does look like Santa Claus. However, the hair drives me up the wall and down again! Little kids will see us at restaurants, and they will stare at my father who they believe to be Santa. 


My Christmas present each year is that he shaves on Christmas Day! I cannot help but hate the long hair. It makes him look so much older than he is. 


Today I found this picture from a friend's Christmas party. Some lady that came to the party made these little treats. Yes, they look like little mice on a plate. I am dying to try and make these. From what I can tell it is a chocolate-covered graham cookie for the base, a chocolate-covered cherry for the body and tail, a Hershey's kiss for the face, slivered almonds for the ears, and some red decorating gel for the eyes. It looks complicated but simple. I think I will try to make these for a party I am attending on Tuesday. 


My friend, Amanda, is obsessed with her cats. She will someday be the ultimate cat-lady. She posted this picture today of one of her cats looking festive for the holiday season. Poor cat looks miserable in his antlers. 


The other picture that I was tempted to post was of Amanda holding down the cat. I commented that it was sad she had to forcibly hold down the cat to make him wear those antlers. 


I found this picture on an article titled "Holiday Stress." I just loved the picture. I actually start devouring my gingerbread man with the legs. I always save the face for last. Someone asked me why, and of course my evil comment was that I wanted the gingerbread man to suffer and watch as he is eaten alive. (Insert evil laugh here!) 


This picture is of my youngest nephew, Dominic. He just turned 5. What a cute kid. He is so full of energy. I often laugh when his mother gets frustrated with him. He is so cute, it is hard to stay angry with him. I can't wait to see him on Friday! 

December 14, 2010

I Was Put on This Earth

Last night I read the latest post from Joe over at My Complicated Life in Provo and it struck a certain nerve within me. Seems that a close friend of Joe’s is being shunned and secluded from family events at the family home simply because he is gay.

I can’t say that I identify with this dilemma. I have been blessed to have a family that has been nothing but supportive my entire life. I cannot even begin to imagine what it would be like if my family decided that I was no longer allowed to come to family events, being shunned for who I am, and (what is worse in my eyes) not being allowed to see my beautiful nieces and nephews.

What is so frightening is that I understand the intolerance, the fear, and the state of mind of these family members. I grew up in a very Southern Baptist family. So much of the doctrine is laid into our psyche very early in life. To question it is a no-no. I was always worried that if my family knew about me that I would be shunned. Amazingly, I have not experienced that yet in my family.

I sat here last night trying to come up with some words of advice for Joe and his friend. I also looked for a song to offer support. I searched high and low. I finally found a song that amazed me.

So, I offer up this song to Joe and his friend going through such a rough time.

“As I Am”

Forgive me
I didn’t realize till now
That our cold, self-righteous words
Could hurt you so.

I was taught very young
By those who came before me
To fear and condemn
The things I don’t know.

There is fear in the hearts of those who would change you
Fear of the light that shines from you
They don’t know that light was designed by God
Who gave it a brilliant and beautiful hue

And to those who would change you or send you away
You must proudly stand your ground and say

I was put on this Earth as I am
I was put here to fill the world with magic
I know all the love with which I was born
Can conquer your taunting
Can conquer your scorn

I was put on this Earth as I am
I was born with my own special blessing
I’ll let them shine and not give a damn
I was put on this Earth…as I am.

There is envy in those who recklessly judge you
Wishing their hearts could love like yours
They don’t understand they can reach within
And find all the love forgiveness restores

And to those who condemn you with fury and shame
You must strongly plant your feet and proclaim

I was put on this Earth as I am
I was put here to live as His creation
And I know I am loved in virtue and sin
I’m calm and content within our own skin

I was put on this Earth as I am
I was born with my own special blessings
I’ll let them shine and not give a damn
I was put on this Earth…as I am.