Currently online tonight looking for a hotel room for when I visit Chicago in two weeks. I have a job interview for a teaching position in Abu Dhabi (United Arab Emirates). Yes, the interview is in Chicago. My only options for an interview location were Houston, Chicago, or New York City. For those of you who know me, you know of my undying love of NYC, but Chicago is going to be a better option.
That is going to be on marathon weekend. On Friday, May 10, I will make the 5 hour drive to Nashville for a teacher event on Friday and Saturday. On Saturday afternoon I will make the 7 hour drive to Chicago. I will only have Sunday to play around in Chicago. The interview is on Monday morning. Then I will make the 10+ hour drive back home.
I know...I know...Why not fly? Well, the trip to Nashville was already planned. I thought about hanging out in Nashville until Monday morning, taking an early flight into Chicago, interviewing that day, taking a flight home that day, and the making the 5 hour drive home. But, I love Chicago, and wanted some extra time there. So, I will be driving like a mad man that weekend. Ugh!
I am super-excited about this interview! The prospect of teaching in Abu Dhabi for two years is exciting. I am terrified, though. This is all moving at such a fast pace. I have got to slow it down a bit and really try to make the best decision for me.
More on the job specifics later.
For my friends in Chicago...HERE I COME!
April 27, 2013
December 25, 2012
Not Our Typical Christmas
Christmas with my family has always been a wonderful time. In the past decade the focus of our family gatherings has shifted towards my 11 nieces and nephews. I love it. However, this Christmas has been like nothing I would have expected.
As we all know, December 14 was the day of the school shootings at Sandy Hook Elementary, in Newtown, CT. However, I also received a phone call that day that the patriarch of my extended family, my great-uncle Bob had passed away. Bob was an amazing man and role model for me. He was first and foremost a family man, an amazing Christian, and a strong advocate for public service. He taught me a great deal in my life, and he will be missed. I forgot to mention that he was married to my aunt Sarah for 62 years. I don't know what she will do without him.
So, over that weekend we dealt with Bob's death, and I also worried about how I would talk to my students on Monday about the shootings at Sandy Hook.
On Monday afternoon, as I was preparing to make the 2.5 hour drive to my hometown for uncle Bob's funeral services, I received a phone call from my dad. He told me that they had found my cousin Kelly dead from a gunshot wound at her apartment. We did not know if it was suicide or murder. The police could not definitively make a ruling until the autopsy was performed. After the autopsy was performed, the medical examiner ruled Kelly's death a suicide.
Kelly was only 32 years old. Of the four grand kids in my family (me, my cousin Del, my brother Jason, and my cousin Kelly), Kelly was the youngest. She lived a very difficult life. She was diagnosed as bipolar when she was a teenager. I can recount numerous times when she ran away from home. I remember her being put in various group homes and psychiatric hospitals throughout her teen years. Her second child, Dayesha, was killed in a car accident when she was only 2. Last year, Kelly lost custody of her other kids due to her drug and alcohol usage. I know she has had a most difficult life, but I am not using that as an excuse to justify suicide. I don't condone it in any way. It saddens me to think she thought she had no way out...no hope...no future.
Kelly was my baby girl. She being the youngest, and I being the oldest, we had a wonderful relationship with one another. I looked out for her. In the past years, I have also worked to look out for her boys. She leaves behind three sons, ages 16, 10, and 7.
So, this past week has been incredible difficult for the family. I had to stand strong for my family I also had to stand strong for my students last week. I chose not to let my students know about the deaths in my family. To them, nothing was wrong. My colleagues were great in keeping a check on me. They also understood that by working with the kids, it kept my spirits up.
The memorial service for Kelly was on Saturday. I drove the 2.5 hours home to attend the service. It was awful seeing my nephews in tears. I also saw my cousin Del breaking down. That was about all I could take. I just wanted to reach out and hug everybody.
How did this affect our family Christmas? Needless to say, our family cancelled our Christmas gathering at my Aunt Sue's house. Sue was horribly broken down by the deaths of Bob and Kelly last week. So, we chose not to have the gathering. My nieces' and nephews' presents were delivered to their grandmother's house for their family gathering.
This had a profound effect on me. I ended up pretty emotionless this week. I was not happy or sad. I was just here! I didn't know how I would be spending Christmas. I had even thought I would just not get out of the house for Christmas. However, I decided to meet my dad, sister, aunt and uncles for dinner on Christmas Eve at a restaurant close to Dad's house. It was nice just to get out of the house and out with the family. We all needed that. I spend the night at Dad's house so we could spend Christmas morning together. Dad cooked his traditional Christmas breakfast for us. It was simple and nice. I had a chance to visit with my mom and stepdad today, which I also needed. A boy needs his mom...especially in times like these!
This Christmas was unlike any previous Christmas in my family. It is something we will never forget, but it is also something we never want to go through again during the holidays. I am blessed to have a close-knit and strong family. We will prevail and life will move forward. We will be there for each other, and that is the best gift of all throughout the year.
I pray that each of you had a blessed holiday. Take care of each other.
Love you all!
Joey
As we all know, December 14 was the day of the school shootings at Sandy Hook Elementary, in Newtown, CT. However, I also received a phone call that day that the patriarch of my extended family, my great-uncle Bob had passed away. Bob was an amazing man and role model for me. He was first and foremost a family man, an amazing Christian, and a strong advocate for public service. He taught me a great deal in my life, and he will be missed. I forgot to mention that he was married to my aunt Sarah for 62 years. I don't know what she will do without him.
So, over that weekend we dealt with Bob's death, and I also worried about how I would talk to my students on Monday about the shootings at Sandy Hook.
On Monday afternoon, as I was preparing to make the 2.5 hour drive to my hometown for uncle Bob's funeral services, I received a phone call from my dad. He told me that they had found my cousin Kelly dead from a gunshot wound at her apartment. We did not know if it was suicide or murder. The police could not definitively make a ruling until the autopsy was performed. After the autopsy was performed, the medical examiner ruled Kelly's death a suicide.
Kelly was only 32 years old. Of the four grand kids in my family (me, my cousin Del, my brother Jason, and my cousin Kelly), Kelly was the youngest. She lived a very difficult life. She was diagnosed as bipolar when she was a teenager. I can recount numerous times when she ran away from home. I remember her being put in various group homes and psychiatric hospitals throughout her teen years. Her second child, Dayesha, was killed in a car accident when she was only 2. Last year, Kelly lost custody of her other kids due to her drug and alcohol usage. I know she has had a most difficult life, but I am not using that as an excuse to justify suicide. I don't condone it in any way. It saddens me to think she thought she had no way out...no hope...no future.
Kelly was my baby girl. She being the youngest, and I being the oldest, we had a wonderful relationship with one another. I looked out for her. In the past years, I have also worked to look out for her boys. She leaves behind three sons, ages 16, 10, and 7.
So, this past week has been incredible difficult for the family. I had to stand strong for my family I also had to stand strong for my students last week. I chose not to let my students know about the deaths in my family. To them, nothing was wrong. My colleagues were great in keeping a check on me. They also understood that by working with the kids, it kept my spirits up.
The memorial service for Kelly was on Saturday. I drove the 2.5 hours home to attend the service. It was awful seeing my nephews in tears. I also saw my cousin Del breaking down. That was about all I could take. I just wanted to reach out and hug everybody.
How did this affect our family Christmas? Needless to say, our family cancelled our Christmas gathering at my Aunt Sue's house. Sue was horribly broken down by the deaths of Bob and Kelly last week. So, we chose not to have the gathering. My nieces' and nephews' presents were delivered to their grandmother's house for their family gathering.
This had a profound effect on me. I ended up pretty emotionless this week. I was not happy or sad. I was just here! I didn't know how I would be spending Christmas. I had even thought I would just not get out of the house for Christmas. However, I decided to meet my dad, sister, aunt and uncles for dinner on Christmas Eve at a restaurant close to Dad's house. It was nice just to get out of the house and out with the family. We all needed that. I spend the night at Dad's house so we could spend Christmas morning together. Dad cooked his traditional Christmas breakfast for us. It was simple and nice. I had a chance to visit with my mom and stepdad today, which I also needed. A boy needs his mom...especially in times like these!
This Christmas was unlike any previous Christmas in my family. It is something we will never forget, but it is also something we never want to go through again during the holidays. I am blessed to have a close-knit and strong family. We will prevail and life will move forward. We will be there for each other, and that is the best gift of all throughout the year.
I pray that each of you had a blessed holiday. Take care of each other.
Love you all!
Joey
November 26, 2012
It's Nice to Feel Appreciated
It is only Monday, and I am already exhausted!
I have spent much of today working on an application for a supplemental job with the state department of education. Our state is hiring teachers across the state to be "coaches" of the new common core standards. My principal asked me to apply, so I have been working on that marathon of an application all day. I did not leave the school until 7:30 tonight.
My principal wrote a letter of recommendation for me, and I got the chance to read it today. I honestly came close to shedding tears. It was an incredible letter, so I wanted to share with you. It is below:
To Whom It May Concern:
I am pleased to recommend Joe XXXXXX for the position of Core Coach for the state of XXXXXX. Mr. XXXXXX possesses the skills needed to be successful as a Core Coach. He is one of our best teachers at XXXXXX Intermediate School, a school that is known throughout the state of consistently producing excellent results. Mr. XXXXXX is highly motivated and extremely competent. He possesses the rare combination of being a building leader, yet has the ability to collaborate successfully with his colleagues. Year in and year out his students achieve some of the best results in our building. In addition to a high achievement rate, his value-added scores are at a level five. He would be an excellent addition to the team of Core Coaches for our state.
Mr. XXXXXX serves the XXXXXX Intermediate community in numerous ways. He currently sits on the Leadership Team for the school. In addition, he served on the Transition Team that steered our campus from a 6-7 grade level configuration to a 5-6 grade level configuration. During the time of change, Mr. XXXXXX brought solutions and ideas to make the change successful for the students, parents, and teachers. Many times throughout the process, he volunteered to develop or create new procedures or structures that set up our school community for success. Our transition to 5-6 campus has been extremely smooth. Mr. XXXXXX gets the complexity of change. I believe this skill set will serve the state extremely well during the transition to common core standards.
Mr. XXXXXX also serves the building as our 6th grade department leader for Science. Last year during the implementation of the new evaluation system, he worked closely with our other seven sixth grade science teachers to take existing lesson plans, and create plans that were much more rigorous for our students. It was no surprise when results came back from the state that our 6th grade science scores improved from 72% proficient and advanced to 81% proficient and advanced. The rate of growth in one year is exceptional. The team did phenomenal under Mr. XXXXXX's leadership. In addition, and not surprisingly, he had the highest percentage of proficient and advanced of all our 6th grade science teachers.
Mr. XXXXXX's work ethic is to be respected. I have been working in education for 16 years and have not worked with another teacher so devoted. He arrives early and stays late. Not only does he provide excellent lessons for his students, but he assists numerous teachers behind the scenes. Our faculty trusts him and knows he will lead them in right direction. He gives of his time freely. Mr. XXXXXX is always willing to help out with a music concert, PTA event, or faculty meeting presentation. One thing that has impressed me most is his ability to work with student data. He has used benchmark results, formative assessments, and TCAPs to guide his instruction. He has the ability to create easy to read and understand charts about the progress of his students.
Mr. XXXXXX is a beloved teacher on our campus. Students enjoy his presentation style. He makes each student successful by his ability to plan and learn from data. It is without hesitation, that I recommend Mr. XXXXXX for a XXXXXX Core Coach. He will be an asset to the state as he is an asset to XXXXXX Intermediate.
I have spent much of today working on an application for a supplemental job with the state department of education. Our state is hiring teachers across the state to be "coaches" of the new common core standards. My principal asked me to apply, so I have been working on that marathon of an application all day. I did not leave the school until 7:30 tonight.
My principal wrote a letter of recommendation for me, and I got the chance to read it today. I honestly came close to shedding tears. It was an incredible letter, so I wanted to share with you. It is below:
To Whom It May Concern:
I am pleased to recommend Joe XXXXXX for the position of Core Coach for the state of XXXXXX. Mr. XXXXXX possesses the skills needed to be successful as a Core Coach. He is one of our best teachers at XXXXXX Intermediate School, a school that is known throughout the state of consistently producing excellent results. Mr. XXXXXX is highly motivated and extremely competent. He possesses the rare combination of being a building leader, yet has the ability to collaborate successfully with his colleagues. Year in and year out his students achieve some of the best results in our building. In addition to a high achievement rate, his value-added scores are at a level five. He would be an excellent addition to the team of Core Coaches for our state.
Mr. XXXXXX serves the XXXXXX Intermediate community in numerous ways. He currently sits on the Leadership Team for the school. In addition, he served on the Transition Team that steered our campus from a 6-7 grade level configuration to a 5-6 grade level configuration. During the time of change, Mr. XXXXXX brought solutions and ideas to make the change successful for the students, parents, and teachers. Many times throughout the process, he volunteered to develop or create new procedures or structures that set up our school community for success. Our transition to 5-6 campus has been extremely smooth. Mr. XXXXXX gets the complexity of change. I believe this skill set will serve the state extremely well during the transition to common core standards.
Mr. XXXXXX also serves the building as our 6th grade department leader for Science. Last year during the implementation of the new evaluation system, he worked closely with our other seven sixth grade science teachers to take existing lesson plans, and create plans that were much more rigorous for our students. It was no surprise when results came back from the state that our 6th grade science scores improved from 72% proficient and advanced to 81% proficient and advanced. The rate of growth in one year is exceptional. The team did phenomenal under Mr. XXXXXX's leadership. In addition, and not surprisingly, he had the highest percentage of proficient and advanced of all our 6th grade science teachers.
Mr. XXXXXX's work ethic is to be respected. I have been working in education for 16 years and have not worked with another teacher so devoted. He arrives early and stays late. Not only does he provide excellent lessons for his students, but he assists numerous teachers behind the scenes. Our faculty trusts him and knows he will lead them in right direction. He gives of his time freely. Mr. XXXXXX is always willing to help out with a music concert, PTA event, or faculty meeting presentation. One thing that has impressed me most is his ability to work with student data. He has used benchmark results, formative assessments, and TCAPs to guide his instruction. He has the ability to create easy to read and understand charts about the progress of his students.
Mr. XXXXXX is a beloved teacher on our campus. Students enjoy his presentation style. He makes each student successful by his ability to plan and learn from data. It is without hesitation, that I recommend Mr. XXXXXX for a XXXXXX Core Coach. He will be an asset to the state as he is an asset to XXXXXX Intermediate.
Pardon all the Xs in the letter.
I seriously am not trying to boast in any way. That is not my style. I just wanted to share the joy with you. It is not everyday we get told such wonderful things about ourselves by those around us. It just makes you feel special from time to time. I wish everyone could get a letter just as nice written about them.
Hope everyone is having a great start to their week!
Nothing but love, my friends!
Joey
November 13, 2012
Shane and Tom
FAIR WARNING: Get some tissue ready before you watch this video. You will most certainly need it!
I was in the Nashville area this past weekend for a conference. As I laid in bed at my beautiful hotel on Friday night, I could not sleep. I don't know what it was, but I just could not force myself to go to sleep. So, I decided to get on the iPad for a bit to look around Facebook, emails, etc. I don't even remember how I got to a link of this video. However, I remember watching it three consecutive times. I couldn't break myself away from it. I was so moved by what I was watching that I spent the next few hours researching the video, the incredible man in the video, and the story behind the video. What I found brought me to uncontrollable tears.
Tragically, Tom died unexpectedly on May 7, 2011 when he fell 4-stories from a roof while taking pictures of a friend. Shane's world was instantly flipped upside down.
Tom's mom flew to California to collect Tom's body and take him back to Indiana for a funeral and burial. She convinced Shane to pay for the transport of Tom's body back to Indiana and the cost of the funeral. Shane relented. What makes this story even more tragic is that Shane was forbidden to attend Tom's funeral and burial. He didn't get to say his last goodbyes. In fact, he was threatened by Tom's dad and family if he were to show up.
Since last Friday, I have not been able to get this video, Shane's story, and Shane's journey out of my mind. It has had a profound effect on me over the past few days.
You see, I have not always given much thought to marriage equality. It is not that I didn't believe in equal rights. Far from it. I believe the reason I was so removed from the topic is that I didn't quite understand the ramifications of a legal marriage for all. Shane and Tom's story have put this into a whole new light. I now understand that even something as a civil partnership or civil union would not allow couples the same rights as a legally married couple. In Shane and Tom's case, Shane would have been able to make medical decisions for Tom, he could have gotten information about the events in the hospital that are now kept from him, and he could have arranged a cremation and funeral service for Tom in California, which was his wish. He could have done all of these things if he was legally recognized as Tom's husband. Sadly, the citizens of California approved Prop 8 several years ago, which means Tom and Shane were not able to get married as they wanted. It is time for us all to stand up and fight for legal marriages for all couples in the United States. It is time for the discrimination to stop.
Shane, I don't know if you will ever find this blog or this post. However, if you were to ever read this, please know that I am so incredible sorry for the loss of Tom. I cannot imagine the pain you have had to endure since losing the love of your life. I wish I had the words to say. Please know that you have the love and support of so many people you may never know of get to meet. It is my prayer for you to be able to use this tragic event for some good in the world. I know the love you and Tom shared will never die. That type of love transcends this Earth, and will last for eternity. Tom will always be with you in your heart. It is not the same as having him physically by your side, but he will never be far away. I have no doubt that you can sense his presence around you as you carry on in life. You know Tom would not want you to be so sad in life. He would want only the best for you that this life has to offer. And, when this life fades, you will most certainly find Tom waiting for you to join him at the pearly gates of Heaven. A love for eternity! And, thank you to you and Tom for helping me to see what true love can really be in this life. I will forever be in your debt for that incredible gift.
On a side note, the video and song below were written for Tom. It was written and sung by Colleen McMahon in tribute of Tom Bridegroom. I have played this song more times over the past few days than I care to admit. The love in this song is undeniable.
November 8, 2012
Speechless...
Got home from work tonight and popped over to Facebook for a moment just to check messages and a few updates. One of the updates on my feed made me get up and do a little dance. Okay, so I didn't literally get up and dance, but I could have easily done so.
What made me so excited, you may ask! I found out that one of my favorite Broadway stars will soon be starring in a musical I am more than anxious to see.
Yes, I have had a "crush" on Matt since I had the chance to see him in Spring Awakening on Broadway a couple times. (Only a few friends know of this! Well, now more will know.) This gives me another reason to get my rear end back up to New York City!
Just felt the need to share!
What made me so excited, you may ask! I found out that one of my favorite Broadway stars will soon be starring in a musical I am more than anxious to see.
Yes, I have had a "crush" on Matt since I had the chance to see him in Spring Awakening on Broadway a couple times. (Only a few friends know of this! Well, now more will know.) This gives me another reason to get my rear end back up to New York City!
Just felt the need to share!
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